CuddleLA
Home of Cuddle Party in Los Angeles
About
Format | Rules | Testimonials | Press | FAQ
Cuddle Party Testimonials
We love the feedback we receive from our participants. Here is what some of our participants think about Cuddle Party:
- "In a word: FABULOUS! You did an extraordinary job of facilitating and setting the tone for an experience that was, for me, empowering, comfortable, fun as heck, and uplifting. I'll be back for more."
—Lori, Los Angeles - "The atmosphere was great — the room, music, food. . . . And you both do such a great job communicating the intent and guidelines of Cuddle Party. Your thoughts on how someone who says no to you honestly is someone you can trust were particularly enlightening. It definitely opened my eyes about how I have viewed touch in my life."
—Tom, Santa Monica - "Thank you soooooo much for the three and a half hours of complete freedom and for all the joy that went with it!"
—Leslie, West Hollywood - "I felt at all times 100% in the hands of people I could completely trust and really open myself up in front of without fear of embarrasment or, worse still, inadequacy. Sitting in your PJs spooning with strangers, after all, isn't exactly the most natural thing you'd find yourself normally doing, but I certainly felt, for the time I was there, that it was the only place I wanted to be."
—Don, Los Angeles - "The group of cuddlers was great! A surprisingly friendly collection of people from a variety of backgrounds, with warm, welcoming personalities and a common interest in learning more about themselves and personal growth. I left the party with a feeling of fulfillment, comfort and ease I hadn't had in many months. Thank you!"
—Shelby, Los Angeles - "Cuddle Party was a totally new experience for me. I was hesitant at first, but I got used to things so quickly! Thank you for your support and caring. Looking forward to coming back for more..."
—Janet, Los Angeles - "Thank you guys so much. Cuddle Party is a quiet, relaxed, safe environment; the exact opposite of the bar scene. The emphasis on honest, direct communication is most welcome, and it was great to meet some cool people. Now, if I could just get some snazzier pajamas!"
—Michael, Los Angeles - "I loved the intense calmness I felt after the event Saturday and how I am interacting with friends just a day later. Thank you!"
—Cecilia, Los Angeles - "This was the most amazing few hours I've ever spent in jammies! The environment was so relaxed and comfortable ... overall, a great experience, emotionally as well as physically. Thank you."
—Darla, Long Beach - "When I arrived I was totally nervous about what was going to happen at the Cuddle Party. But once I sat down and the Welcome Circle started, you guys immediately made me feel both extremely safe and ready for some cuddling ... thanks for a great experience!"
—Sandra, Los Angeles - "I want to thank you guys for all the help you've provided me in working to balance my paradigm about touch. It's hard to tell what has changed for me physically, but I know I've mellowed out a lot in contrast to the rigid perspective I grew up with, which unfortunately influenced me. But Cuddle Party is a forum for exploring these things. And you guys do such a great job! Thanks."
—Kenny, Reseda - "After attending the Cuddle Party this past Sunday, I stepped out onto the street and had a very good feeling, a lightness, peaceful and smiley. It was great to meet and connect and cuddle with everyone. The atmosphere and the tone you set was so friendly and welcoming! I had a great time and hope to join you again."
—Jim, New York City - "Thanks for the wonderful time on Saturday. I didn't realize how much I enjoyed it until I left and embraced how spectacular I felt. Your party brightened my world. I feel more comfortable and less inhibited. I can't wait for your next gathering!"
—Rich, New York City - "What a great event! Lots of fun and enjoyment, great group of people, comfortable environment, and I learned a lot about myself that I can take with me into the future. Thanks so much for facilitating and being visionaries."
—Kurt, Woodland Hills - "You guys are the sweetest, nicest, kindest hosts. What a joy it is to have you facilitating the events!"
—Michelle, Hermosa Beach - "Heartfelt thanks for creating a safe and warm environment for us new Cuddlers. It's an atmosphere I've been looking for! Now I know where I can go for a few hours to fully be the affectionate self that I am, without so much apprehension that men might perceive that in a weird way."
—Hally, Los Angeles - "I really enjoyed the event Thursday. My only regret was that I didn't get to practice saying 'no' very much, because I was far too happy to say 'yes' to cuddling! But I do feel like the Cuddle Party was a constructive part of my process becoming more comfortable asking for what I want and feeling entitled to say when I don't want something. The structure of the event was great, and again, kudos for being great facilitators. It was night and day from the 'Snuggledome' at Burning Man, where there were a few posted rules but no sense that anyone else necessarily had read them or that there were any lifeguards. Thanks again!"
—John, Venice Beach - "I had the best time. Thank you again for keeping up this deeply cool idea and accompanying it with an exquisite soundtrack!"
—Alex, Pasadena - "Strangely, my lower back pain that I've had for so long has disappeared. The healing powers of touch?"
—James, Los Angeles - "You guys not only are good at facilitating, you clearly enjoy it a lot. I appreciate your heart and your attitude. Thank you for taking the time and effort to coordinate this!"
—Joseph, Sherman Oaks - "Dear CuddleLA ... My new stranger-cuddling skills came in handy less than twelve hours after the cuddle party! I witnessed a traffic accident in which a young man ran a red light and crashed into an empty limo driven by an older man. The older man was in a lot of pain and shakey. I sat beside him to pass the time until emergency personnel arrived — and he asked me to hold his hand. I felt very in tune with the way he asked and the sort of emotional calm and reassurance he was asking for. As he was taken away to the ambulance he thanked me and promised me a free limo drive, as I was 'his angel.' Thanks to you both for a genuinely interesting cuddle experience."
—Maggie, Los Angeles - "Thanks again for putting this event together. It was a great and slightly scary experience, but you definitely helped make it approachable and fun. I wish you much success as you build this up!"
—John, Los Angeles - "Now I know what I was missing (and often confusing with sexual needs) all those years before I met my husband. It took finding him, before I felt safe enough to ask for a cuddle when I needed one. I'm catching up on years of cuddle-deprivation now."
—Donna, Amsterdam
Participants connect during the Welcome Circle.
Permission to say "no" creates safety at Cuddle Party.
Openness + respect for boundaries = authenticity of connection.